So in South Africa you not allowed to know the name of the adopting Parents. This is to protect them and the baby. And I understand this logically.
But now I have a delema well not really but I accidently found my daughters parents on Facebook this morning now wow this shocked me. Now Legally Im not allowed to know their surname and not that i can do anything with it but just knowing really hurt me. I dont plan to follow up on the information or try find them in person, or anything crazy.
Ok now the delema I face is do I tell them I know do I tell my social worker? or do I just keep quiet and just keep it to myself ????
And its a year now and I'm a mess and yes I know I did the right thing for her but its suppose to get easier and like my mom said its hormones too but for fudge sakes Im not suppose to such a mess I should be happy I know ???
