14 March 2012

Positve Side of Adoption

Adoption is often only written about in a negative sense. Which is only one side of the story.

The Negative side of Adoption is huge and the problem often is that a lot of us only tend to blog about the bad stuff. Which means you don’t get to hear about all the good things about adoption. You hardly ever hear the happily ever after stories,(yes there are the happily ever after stories).
So I thought I would share some of the good things in our adoption.
  1. I have an amazing relationship with T’s parents.
  2. T is happy,
  3. M and E like T’s family and they feel included.
  4. My girls know they are sisters and T knows they are her family.
  5. T is loved by all of us. so she is blessed more than anyone could have imagined. 
  6. I am at peace with my decision to place T. I don’t worry any more that she is safe or if she is OK because I know.
  7. Most of all what makes our adoption good is respect.
  8. I feel like I haven’t “lost” T to adoption but I grew my family to include hers.